When Angel got here I made it a point to learn more about her. I asked questions about her family. Asked about favorite colors, foods, and of course we really talked about concerts.
But this sister that she slept in the say bed with for years was difficult to learn much about. What I do remember hearing about Megan was that she got pregnant in high school and that Jimmy beat her so badly that she went into labor early. Whether the REAL Megan experienced any abuse, it is a lie to say she suffered any abuse at the hands of Jimmy. Again, he was not her father and I have found through my research that she adores Jimmy.
Why did I ask so much about this “sister”, read that last paragraph again. How can her father attack her after she went to bed but before her mother got home from work? She told me her mother worked late but did not work third shifts.
I am going to stop using the word “rape” because it is a lie and it gives Angel power over her innocent father.
So her FAKE sister would have been a teen/preteen when Jimmy supposedly started coming into her room to attack her. As a teen/preteen, did you go to bed before midnight? Were you able to stay asleep when you little sister was being attacked in the very same bed you shared? I am betting the answer is no, to all of that.
So I asked a little more…Angel told her friend Kat that I asked too many questions. She told Kat I was annoying about it. Kat is a wonderful young women that has been brought into my life at the expense of my sanity but she very much is one of the bright spots in my life you will learn more about later.
So let’s keep going…is you mind racing yet? Are you yelling questions at the screen? I tried very hard to press her when the opportunity presented itself and was patient when the door would shut. The one thing I did however was make mental notes and rephrase questions to get to the answer I was looking for. It took months to get enough of the pieces to figure this out and I worked especially hard getting her to admit to some of what I already figured out.
The more I asked the more her story would change because of course your father cannot attack you ate age six and your sibling that shared the same bed not notice.
As you probably read her letter that she had me help her write, which I wholeheartedly regret now. You can see how the entire letter will fall apart and so will the claims of abuse.
The story would morph into he would slip her out of bed after the children went to bed and would take her else where to do this. At one point he was supposedly taking her to her parents bed.
The house was so small and they were so poor, Angel said she never had a bed to herself until after Megan had her children and moved away…at one point she said all four siblings shared that same bed.
SO MANY LIES, SO LITTLE TIME…Angel also stated that the first two of Megan’s children carried the Haines as their last name. Again, they are not related.
If Megan would like to ever go public with her story trust me I will make time to add her thoughts and comments to the site.
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