Jimmy Haines is my cousin =) I knew Angel since she was born. I know her whole family very well. You have come to the correct conclusions; Angel was not abused by her father, she only had one sibling, Danny and her grandmother (rest her soul) Aunt Betty did not commit suicide. Its truly heartbreaking to me, as a family member, to see such horrendous lies about someone as humble and caring as Jimmy. He’s truly an outstanding individual and has literally lived his life supporting Angel through every endeavor, milestone and loss she’s endured. Jimmy is also a cancer survivor which I don’t see her even mentioning though it was a great obstacle for him.. He also lost his wife, his mother, his sister & Danny. The thing that hurts most is to see that, instead of supporting her father through these hardships, she makes up lies to turn him into some villian in her stories to garner people’s attention. I am so sorry she took advantage of your kind nature. You were willing to go out on a limb to help and care for her but she was a farce. I’m sick to my stomach seeing all the lies. It’s crazy. Thanks for sharing your story and again, my sympathies because someone you loved was a lie. That’s as hard as losing someone to death.
This was a comment posted after one of my posts. It amazes me the more I learn about Angel and her history.
The more I learn the more victimized I feel
She left me questioning whether I should actually post any of these things…however she continues to ramp it up. She is risking the wellbeing of my family, she is jeopardizing my husband’s career and could leave us homeless.
When she left my house I thought she lied to me about a few things, not the elaborate spider web she created. No one with the number of so called conditions would be able to keep track of the lies that they were telling.
So I searched for the truth and it has sent me into a very dark place. I have fibromyalgia and chronic fatigue syndrome. The stress from thinking I could have been murdered while sitting out in front of her apartment when she grabbed her things. The stress of being kept awake nearly every night. Running on a few hours of broken sleep for nearly five months. Has finally taking its toll. My hair is falling out to the point where I have needed to cut several inches off just to hide the patches.
I honestly don’t know how to feel about her fixation with me…
The more I learn the more I believe the people who reached out to me. They believe she was IN LOVE WITH ME and after what I have learned I do too.
She used to “shake” because of her anxiety. She used to “flinch” if someone touched her or came near her. Remember there has been no trauma, no abuse…this was a game to get my attention.
I saw a victim needing comfort…she saw an opportunity
I would hoover my hand over hers as to not to scare her before then holding her hand. I made a point to hug her often, especially when she was shaking or showing anxiety. She was giving the front seat in the car so she was less anxious and so I could hold her hand if she needed it. I drove her for 12 hours holding her hand trying to comfort her. I let her sleep in my bed because she cried about how terrified she was that she would die in her sleep of one of her seizures. While in my bed she would lay her head on my shoulder with her arm across my chest. Remember I saw her as a child who had been brutally raped by her father since she was six years old, I allowed this because it cut down on the number of FAKE night terrors and allowed my whole family to get more sleep as well. My comfort was secondary…but after what I have learned I am honestly creeped out.
I am beginning to believe she thought I would come around…
She would constantly say spaghetti is straight until it’s wet. It was an inappropriate joke then but makes me want to vomit now. She said this and similar jokes constantly. While at a concert over the summer, I asked if I looked okay…she said something that sexualized me. Since I didn’t hear it I let it go but when I asked what she said…the others around her said she sexually propositioned you.
I feel like she was grooming me and gaslighting me…
While many of my sources will remain confidential due to their proximity to where Angel lives one of them has confirmed this type of behavior with one of Angel’s former ex’s.
When Angel does not get what she wants she becomes violent and vindictive. So it makes sense that when her freeloading came to an end she would lash out. She forced me to give the world a window to my life, to my private thoughts and feelings.
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