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It Would Be Decided As a Family That We Wouldn’t Tell Anyone She Was Staying With Us…

Angel’s safety was a priority and so was the safety of our family. Precautions were taken, VPN was set up and she was told to stay offline since that is what prompted the attack Certain items were made easily accessible. Extra cameras were purchased and set up. Discussions were had. We also decided it wasContinue reading “It Would Be Decided As a Family That We Wouldn’t Tell Anyone She Was Staying With Us…”

Hey, that happened to me too…what a coincidence

So to make her comfortable within my home, I offered conversation. Within the first few days I noticed she was lying, or at the very least I thought she was. Why wasn’t that a red flag? I expected anyone that suffered that type of abuse to lie a little… I expected she would be uncomfortableContinue reading “Hey, that happened to me too…what a coincidence”

What exactly constitutes a relationship…a few dates???

Yes, there were a lot of notes to compare. Angel had stories of other ex’s too. While the one ex reached out by email…this one went straight to texting her. Angel wanted to know what I thought about responding to her. I told her to be careful what you wish for, reaching out to herContinue reading “What exactly constitutes a relationship…a few dates???”

Bruises, Lies and Gaslighting…

She had every illness that the people around her had…this should have been a red flag…but I saw it a reason to be more caring and concerned…I didn’t know it was all fake She would also tell us about her long list of physical illnesses she had too. After reading one of my blog posts…oneContinue reading “Bruises, Lies and Gaslighting…”

She knew EVERYONE…or did she?

When we met, we were having a heck of a week. We had been to a handful of shows already that week and had fun stories to share. We have a habit of being in the right place at the right time. That week was no exception, we had met a lead singers family andContinue reading “She knew EVERYONE…or did she?”

That of image her father texting her changed everything…it sent me racing back to get her I drove another six and a hours to save her from the danger I was told she was in…

I was receiving SMS messages from Laura telling me he was violated the retraining order. I believed she was in immediate danger. I arrived home, raced upstairs to gather my things and told my husband I had to go get her. I called her friend Mary Beth and had started making a plan for Angel.Continue reading “That of image her father texting her changed everything…it sent me racing back to get her I drove another six and a hours to save her from the danger I was told she was in…”

Was it a mistake to have kept in touch…or was it up to me and the friends I made to bring this to light…but this is where it started

I have really struggled to come to grips whether or not this horrible saga is going to have a silver lining. I love that I have met a new group of online friends, I have met some in person, we video chat and are making plans to meet in person soon. After meeting Angel atContinue reading “Was it a mistake to have kept in touch…or was it up to me and the friends I made to bring this to light…but this is where it started”

I found new friends and don’t have time for you MB…

Many people were unfortunate to meet Angel Haines. MB is one of them. Mary Beth is a wonderful young lady that it has been my shear pleasure to met her in person and spent time with her family. Her and her family are some of the nicest people I have ever met and we haveContinue reading “I found new friends and don’t have time for you MB…”

TW: Wait…how could you find your brother’s blood on the bathroom wall…if he didn’t exist

My goal once I brought Angel here was to keep her safe and if that meant to stand between her and a bullet I had full intentions on doing so. My second goal was to make her feel comfortable and in doing so I shared a few personal stories with her, this was one ofContinue reading “TW: Wait…how could you find your brother’s blood on the bathroom wall…if he didn’t exist”

I will probably never know the real story about Danny…but I wish his family well and you should too.

Please remember this site is about clearing my name, protecting someone like me from doing what I could have done and that is hurt an innocent man. If her father had approach the apartment the night I waited for her to grab her belongings it could have went badly. I was terrified of this monsterContinue reading “I will probably never know the real story about Danny…but I wish his family well and you should too.”

So, she does not have a sister, you don’t say…

When Angel got here I made it a point to learn more about her. I asked questions about her family. Asked about favorite colors, foods, and of course we really talked about concerts. But this sister that she slept in the say bed with for years was difficult to learn much about. What I doContinue reading “So, she does not have a sister, you don’t say…”

Let’s start picking apart that letter…

I am not sure if I view as a victim, a sleuth or just plain gullible. No matter where I land on this I simply never envisioned having to do this. But here goes… If you were able to stomach that letter let’s make it easier for you. It was a lie. Angel does notContinue reading “Let’s start picking apart that letter…”

Who Better to Impersonate…than the one that caught you in the act…

When I brought Angel into my home the one rule I set was to not lie to me. I told her if you lie to me I will have your bags packed and you will be out in 20 minutes. One must understand to let someone into your home you must trust them, you mustContinue reading “Who Better to Impersonate…than the one that caught you in the act…”